Nigerian singer Tems revealed the challenges of her fame in a podcast interview, stating she can’t drive in Nigeria without police escorts due to intense fan attention.
After a near-mobbing experience in Lagos last December, Tems prioritizes safety. Meanwhile, a nurse shared a disturbing story of a husband who prioritized intimacy over his wife’s health, threatening to withhold food if she didn’t comply.
The husband’s shocking response to medical advice highlighted issues of gender-based violence and toxic masculinity. These two stories contrast the glamorous facade of celebrity life with the harsh realities of Nigerian society, sparking important conversations about safety, health, and relationships.